Men's First Date Immersion

February 6-8, 2026

Austin, TX

Online Cohort starts January 12

Master the first date.  Get the dating experience and feedback you need to leave every date with choice.

This immersion is for the man who wants dating and relationships to feel natural, grounded, and enjoyable instead of tense, confusing, or overthought.

This immersion will help you:

  • Be fully yourself with women without hiding behind a script

  • Build the vision for and sustain healthy long-term relationships

  • Create stable emotional contact and investment with women

  • Smooth out clunkiness on dates

  • Lower inhibition and guardedness around attractive women

  • Feel desirable without seeking validation

  • Get the dating experience you never got growing up

  • Understand women’s subtle cues and emotional signals

  • Lead interactions with women in the direction that feels good to you

  • Build a dating life where continued dates are your choice

  • Turn anxiety into excitement instead of pressure

  • Build real intimacy, trust, and comfort in dating

How we'll get you there...

The Online Cohort (1 Month)

During the month before the immersion, you’ll build a strong baseline, helping you:

 

  • Rewrite negative predictions and prime excitement with women
  • Reinforce progress through journaling and reflection
  • Alleviate initial self-conscious behavior and avoidant patterns
  • Prime your attention to spot women who want to connect with you
  • Build real-world momentum through an “experimentation” mindset
  • Gain clarity for deeper in-person work

 

This month primes your internal “operating system” so your immersion can be a smooth experience.

The 3-Day Immersion

Here, we tackle the deeper patterns head-on through  hands-on dating practice with trusted women and honest feedback.

 

  • Go on multiple guided dates with coach feedback
  • Build an attractive presence
  • Master nonverbal communication without self-monitoring
  • Express your desires and navigate boundaries skillfully
  • Overcome anxiety, inhibition, fear, self-consciousness
  • Take risks in conversation that build intimacy and sexual tension
  • Build the emotional stability that women trust
  • Understand women's subtle signals as they play out in real-time
  • Build a future vision that makes women excited to join you
  • Build a baseline of calm strength with any woman on any date
     

You’ll get 20+ hours of dating experience in an environment where you are encouraged and equipped to try something new.

This immersion only works when you commit to:

  • Facing your fears instead of performing over them
  • Communicating honestly and proactively even when it feels risky
  • Letting yourself be seen emotionally by women and coaches
  • Testing new behaviors and predictions in real time
  • Reestablishing intentions even when you feel inhibited
  • Shifting avoidance patterns as they appear
  • Dropping the charming script and being real
  • Being transparent about your challenges and desires so the immersion can be tailored to you

Ready to take the first step?

Which immersion is right for you?

Click on the drop-down menus below to see a summary about each immersion.

Subtle Communication and Self-Respect Immersion

Men's First Date Immersion

Men's Rejection Sensitivity and First Impression Immersion